Keeping Our Loved Ones Active: Why It Matters and How to Do It As our loved ones’ health declines, it can be hard to know what to do with them. What used to come easily — a favorite hobby, a daily routine, a simple conversation — may now require more effort, more patience, and more
Caregiving Set Me on a Spiritual Journey. It Might Do the Same for You. There are moments in life that divide time into before and after. My mother’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis was one of those moments. Everything I thought I knew — about life, about myself, about what I could handle — suddenly felt uncertain. Mortality
Who Really Benefits from Caregiving? The Answer Might Surprise You. I was getting ready to leave my mother’s home after a full, lovely day together — shopping, lunch, an afternoon of HGTV on the couch — when she asked me a question I wasn’t prepared for. She wanted to know if she had done something
The Hidden Key to Caregiving: Emotional Resilience I thought I’d be great at this. After 25 years as an occupational therapist, I had worked with countless patients and was completely comfortable assisting others with their daily lives — dressing, bathing, feeding, even helping someone safely onto a toilet. When my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s,
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How a Spiritual Practice Can Support Caregivers For many caregivers, the idea of spirituality can feel overwhelming. It may sound abstract, like something reserved for people who have quiet mornings, long stretches of time, and the emotional space to reflect. Caregivers rarely have any of those. But spirituality does not have to be lofty or
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MOMENTS THAT FIND US At my recent book signing, I had one of those encounters that stays with you. The kind that reminds you why this work matters, and how caregiving has a way of gently revealing itself in everyday moments. While I was at my table, I noticed a man guiding his father through
🛁 Bathing a Loved One: Safety, Dignity, and Comfort Bathing a loved one is one of the most intimate caregiving tasks. If you’ve ever felt unsure, awkward, afraid they might fall — or heartbroken when they resisted — you are not alone. Before my mother moved into assisted living, she showered every day. Long, hot
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Dressing another person can be far more complicated than it looks. What was once a quick, automatic part of the day can become physically challenging, emotionally charged, and unexpectedly intimate. If you’ve ever found yourself feeling rushed, frustrated, or unsure while helping someone get dressed, you’re not alone. I want to begin by saying this
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The Power of Curiosity: A Quiet Strength for Family Caregivers During one of my visits with my mother, as she napped in her wheelchair, I found myself memorizing her face — trying to etch every detail into my mind for the day when she would no longer be here. I studied the shape of her
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How to Trust Your Instincts as a Caregiver Something feels off, but we’re not sure what. Does the strange behavior our family member just displayed mean something? Should we mention it to the doctor? How do we know when it’s time to say something? This can be a sensitive and uncertain place to sit. We
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